We have never been more tethered in today’s world, yet ironically, never more disconnected. We have multiple communication devices and platforms, yet we’re disengaged in personal contact. Telling the world about our lives, while hiding our hearts.

CONSIDER THESE 5 QUESTIONS:

—How accessible are you?

—What do people have to do to reach you?

—Are you…engage-able?

—How are you filtering who reaches you and who doesn’t?

—Where does that filter come from or what motivates it?

We must honestly evaluate how we are engaging the world and being perceived. And, as believers, evaluate how we are impacting people’s lives for the Kingdom.  Of course, we can’t take every phone call, respond to every email when it comes, or have a conversation with every person we encounter. But, honestly, that isn’t the issue, is it? We stay behind the gun, because we weren’t available last week when the initial connection was made.

So, is there an answer? . . . There’s always an answer, but they’re rarely easy and always take work.

Take some time and think these 3 questions through:

1. Who am I immediately accessible to and why? What size is that circle? Should it be bigger or smaller? Are the people I love really in my accessible circle?
2. Am I in control of my communication and connection or is it in control of me? Do I have too many devices and platforms for me to keep up with? What should go?
3. If God wanted to speak to me today, what would He have to do to get my attention?

Now, here’s 5  practical suggestions you can use right now:

• Make a list of who should be in your circle of accessibility, then make a list of who is actually in your circle. Decide how you’ll balance what you find.
• Sit your family down, beg them to be honest, and ask them to tell you if they feel you are available and accessible? Engaged? Maybe offer them to share on a scale of 1 to 10. Don’t be defensive. Take the info and make changes. That’s the point of asking.
• Do the same exercise with your friends.
• You may need to do this exercise in your work environment, especially if you are in any level of management, and particularly if you’re the CEO.
• The last and final suggestion—and this one is tough—lay your communication devices and media platforms, such as your Facebook page, on the altar and ask God what He would have you do to balance your life with His will? Ask Him what you should do to become more accessible to Him. If God has full access to you, you will impact who you’re supposed to, when you should.

The Spirit, not content to flit around on the surface, dives into the depths of God, and brings out what God planned all along. Who ever knows what you’re thinking and planning except you yourself? The same with God—except that he not only knows what he’s thinking, but he lets us in on it. —1 Corinthians 2:10 MSG

May integrity and uprightness protect me, because my hope, Lord, is in you. – Psalm 25:21 (NIV)

Good guys always finish last…a ploy used to pry the last plank of integrity out of a man’s soul.  A taunt used to prod us toward measuring a man’s worth on the “world’s” scale.

We heap burdens on our shoulders to add weight to our resume.  Working fiercely to tip the scales in our favor creates casualties in our relationships.  Integrity is often grayed to make room for gain.

When we accept the yoke of Christ, we find that His ways are opposite of burdensome.  We find that his teachings are light.

Justifying our actions against the world’s standard of “good” is where we are taught to believe that good guys always finish last – a failed system.

The world draws the finish line at death.  For the gutsy and brave who choose Christ as their measuring scale… the finish line doesn’t exist.  We simply change venues.

Integrity will protect you and living tall – above the crowd – will always prevail.  The world may draw your finish line and attempt to label you as a failure when you shrug off their rules, but remember that the world opposes Christ.

Stand tall – and watch God raise up righteous people to stand with you.

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Have you ever compromised your integrity to step up a rung on the ladder of success?

Which scale do you use at work and which scale do you use at home?

PRAY:  God, thank you for creating a new focus in my life.  Give me the strength to stand against the temptation of compromise.  Remind me of the standards You’ve given me, and dim the world’s standards.  Amen.

Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. – Mark 12:30 (NIV)

Faith in God isn’t a game.  Our messiah, Jesus Christ, didn’t suffer the brutality and endure the torture of the crucifixion so we could pick and choose our flavor of servitude.  The lukewarm lifestyle of believers who pick flavors of faith to enjoy while discarding the necessary denials of the world  - cheapens the cross.

We serve all, under all circumstances, without compromise, and with complete joy.  Faith requires strength and tenacity.

Grace from God may be free, but it certainly isn’t cheap.

We often celebrate the softer, easier side of faith.  The images of peace in the meadows, lambs prancing in fields, or perhaps the tender embrace of reconciliation between long, lost friends can be intoxicating and lovely.  However, the path Jesus took was filled with adversity, controversy, challenges, pain, and heartbreak in the midst of his joy, laughter, and friendships.

It takes commitment to walk in the footsteps of Christ.  It takes tenacity and focus to live in the shadow of the cross.  It takes unwavering devotion to God’s authority to experience the live in the light of the empty tomb.

Being a Christian means you will take the entire package.  Stand up for your faith, no matter the cost.  Live like Christ today.  Remember, He died for you – so you could live.  Honor Him with your strength and unwavering commitment to almighty God.

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What is the hardest part of being a Christian?

Does every part of your life consistently reflect Christ’s teachings?

PRAY:  God, I want to be consistent.  Forgive me for acting like the cross wasn’t meant for me.  Remind me to think about your commands and teachings before every decision.  Make the things that lead me away from you – taste bitter.  Amen.

Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. – Matthew 6:34 (NIV)

The steam that powers industry, conquest, and success is almost always fueled by components of “worry”.  A derivative of fear, the uncertainty of things just beyond the sight line of the horizon can build up pressure, anxiety, and worry.

What might happen?  What will they think? What could be said? What will I eat?  How will I pay the bill?  Will my health last?  Will war begin soon?  Will terror strike my home?

Government systems are designed around our worries.  Insurance companies thrive on our worry.  Capitalism depends on worry and dictators manipulate people through their worries.   Worry is a manipulator of life.

We are human – we manufacture worry and it’s our chief export.

Evil uses worry as a lever to pry us into undesirable action.  God wishes us to use worry as a catalyst to reach a dying world for Christ.

Spend less time worrying about your condition or what may never happen, and spend more time worrying about how to feed a hungry person.  Worry about the implications of not offering the hope of Christ to a friend or family member.  The real power of life comes from the hope of Christ.

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What do you worry about at least once per week?

Where does God fit into your weekly worry plan?

PRAY:  God, I confess that my worries often overshadow my confidence in Your grace.  I don’t want to worry about things that will fade with time, but I struggle.  Remind me, God, to have confidence in Your promises.  Give me power to overcome the fear of not knowing what may be next.  Fill me with courage to walk through this life – as a catalyst of hope.

For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. – Matthew 6:21 (NIV)

Let’s face it, most guys like shiny objects.  We pursue experiences and materials that we can measure, compare, and collect.  From cars, computers, and coins to gadgets, grills, and galleries – we hunt and we gather.   Even the few who don’t care for objects, spend blocks of time and expending energy attempting to capture experiences.

From bustling American cities to the plains of Africa, men hunt, gather, measure, and compare – it’s in our DNA.

God never asked us to stop collecting treasure.  However, He wants to be the treasure you seek – first.  Christ went to the cross to give us the greatest treasure – unconditional love – hope – life restored to our Creator.  We seek Him first.  We quest to clean out our soul to make room for His high place in our life.

Don’t waste your life looking for meaningless objects to define your worth.  Pursue the people in your life like shiny treasure.  Chase the hearts of your children, your community, your family, and your friends with the same passion of Christ who pursued us.   Make today a pursuit of real treasure – God’s grace.

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How hard do you work for treasure?

If money was plentiful, what would you pursue every day?

PRAY:  God, my heart isn’t always lined up with Your desire for me.  I have wasted much of my time chasing things that men cherish instead of seeking You.  Remind me to treasure You and Your creation today. Amen.

So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. – Matthew 7:12 (NIV)

A closed door meeting.
Calm voices.
Professional attitudes.
Covert feelings.

The meeting begins with a smile, a handshake, and the sound of prepared papers shuffling back and forth across the desk.   Hardly a word is spoken as each is trying to quickly determine who is getting the upper hand in the business deal.

Lies spoken.
Nostrils flare.
Accusations made.
Voices raised.

One man pushes back from the desk, stands up, and walks out while threatening litigation.  His counterpart receives the threat and matches the accusation and sends back pride filled words and personal attacks of lying, injustices, and indecency.

Agendas exposed.
Defensive posturing.
Resentment builds.
Character revealed.

When we are treated unfairly, to the point of being offended, we should always look first at our own actions and intentions.  Our lives swing like pendulums across the meridian of truth.  Some things we do right while others we do wrong.  As examples of Christ’s love and reflectors of God’s grace, we must intentionally seek to do hold to what is truth.  Let the pendulum in all of your relationships cease to swing  -  so that –  it remains plumb and rests still and steadfast on the meridian of truth.
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Do you recall being treated unfairly in a relationship?

Have you treated someone unfairly in a relationship?

PRAY:  God, I am not perfect.  There are people in my life who deserve the best parts of me, not the worst.  Teach me to seek truth with everyone and remove hidden agendas.  Protect me from those who wish to harm me, and give me the patience to love even the most difficult people to love. Amen.

Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. – Psalm 100:4 (NIV)

It’s easy to give thanks to God for all that He has given to you.  It’s easy to tell others how thankful you are that God delivers blessings.  It’s easy to proudly survey your possessions and thank God for them.  But it’s hard to thank God for your burdens.  Faith rapidly gains depth when we praise God in the middle of our toughest challenges.

A thankful heart is gains intricate definition as we learn how to glorify God in the midst of our tragedies.  The foundation of joy and contentment is strengthened when we can be thankful in the face of seemingly insurmountable odds.

Our circumstances will get ugly.  Relationships will turn sour.  Feelings and emotions are likely to be trampled.  God is in those moments… waiting for your thankfulness.

Find time to thank God in the midst of strife.  You can truly measure the depth and strength of faith by the joyful dependence on God in the midst of the hardest of times.

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What challenges your thankfulness?

What one difficulty are you now thankful for?

PRAY:  God, help me to see you in the middle of my darkness.  Show me the path of thankfulness for suffering.  Thank you for the challenges in my life… for it’s in those places that I find you most strong. Amen.

The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are healthy, your whole body will be full of light. – Matthew 6:22 (NIV)

There is a groove worn into the sofa where he spends most of his evenings.  The well worn seat is positioned perfectly close to the side table where an assortment of remote controls lay neatly in order of importance.  Channel changers, volume controls, DVD controllers –  magic wands in the hands of those who know how to orchestrate the devices.

A full day of work, long hours of stress, distrust of some, reliance upon others, and contemplations over difficult decisions are somehow pushed aside when settling into the soft seat.  The droning of news anchors, unrealistic life on display, and cleverly edited scenes become the salve on the scars of reality.

With hardly a nod of consideration, our attention, our wants, and our minds are handed over without barriers to the producers of news, directors of entertainment, and architects of television programming.  Our eyes become the portal to our soul – and information pours into life – unhindered.

We become what we think about.  We think on things we steadily observe.  We observe the world through our senses – our vision.  We emulate what we see – and we teach others by our actions.

Be careful what you set your eyes upon.  Given enough time and attention – it will shape attitudes, beliefs, and actions.  Settle into your soft spot on the sofa, but keep your filters engaged and seek to fill your soul with God’s best.

2 Minute Drill

Does your daily routine include a soft spot on the sofa?

Could you give up one 30 minute program to read God’s word?

PRAY:  God, you’ve given me eyes to see your creation and senses to experience your goodness.  Remind me to keep focused on you and resist the distractions that move me away from you.  Amen.

For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. – Matthew 6:14 (NIV)

It was wrong.  No matter how many times it replays or how the recollection begins to twist, what they did was simply wrong.  The memory of the event begins to shape each day and eventually influences behaviors and attitudes.  Life is different now – altered by the baggage.

The small pouch of resentment once carried in the back pocket, has now become a fully packed suitcase of unforgiveness that travels through life, always within arms reach.  No matter how many times we drop off the baggage to be stored by someone else, we return to pick it up – as if the contents are life giving and valuable.

Unforgiveness can become a god.  If we expend valuable time meditating on the injustice, calculate the cost and collateral damage of the wrong , and reconstruct our life to fit around the presence of angst within our soul – we enter dangerous territory.

Jesus Christ teaches and commands us to forgive them, and do it as often as we are wronged.  Expecting people to be perfect, or requiring others to treat us fairly is a fouled and corrupt system of living.  People aren’t perfect, including you and me.  Offer forgiveness whenever possible.  Doing so, allows God to shine favor into your life.  Cleanse your heart of unforgiveness and make room for God’s complete grace to fill you up.

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What baggage of unforgiveness do you carry every day?

Name one item you can remove from your suitcase and give to God – right now.

PRAY:  God, I want your full blessing.  Help me to search my soul and purge the dark spots of unforgiveness.  You are gracious to forgive me, so teach me to be forgiving.  Amen.

 Jesus said to him, “Let the dead bury their own dead, but you go and proclaim the kingdom of God.” – Luke 9:60 (NIV)

Jerry simply couldn’t move on.  More than a year had passed since the loss of his father, and each day brought reminders of missed opportunities and thoughts of “what could have been”.

Jerry’s father wasn’t the easiest man to be around.  He was harsh, jaded, and felt the world owed him a better life than the hand he was dealt.  As a result, Jerry spent his life trying to outlive the shadow of his “old man” – he ran in the opposite direction and sought acceptance from anyone who would offer.  He longed to hear the words – “Good job, son, I’m proud of you.”  However, his dad wasn’t capable of supporting himself, much less a son.  The words never came.

Too often, we get mired into the thick, viscous, muddy trail of needing affirmation from our parents.  Like an addiction, we can destroy our lives by hanging onto dangerous memories and unspoken words from creatures who are appointed to die.  God created within us, a desire to be wanted and affirmed.  Parents can love and affirm, but only God can fill that void and satisfy that craving.

While God, alone, is the author of hope, joy, peace, happiness, and contentment.  He accepts us and meets us where we are.  Let go of the past and avoid the temptation of stalling your life for those who reject God – regardless of who they are.  We are called to go and make disciples and to Love God first.

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Can you recall hearing affirmations from your parents or family?

Have you taken the time to tell the people in your life about Jesus Christ?

PRAY:  God, I love my family and I want them to know you.  Give me the strength necessary to step aside and allow your work to complete itself. Help me to receive your acceptance and fatherly love. Amen.

I found out a few weeks ago that a friend of mine has cancer. The doctors said the tumor had likely been growing for several years, based on the size. He began to have some health issues and that led them to the tumor. They put a port in his chest and he’s now completed his third chemo treatment. I got to see him on Monday. He feels good and his spirit is positive and faith-full. He’s one of those guys that when you hear something like this, you say, “Really, God? Him?! He’s one of the good ones.”

Now, I’m not writing about cancer here, but how the cancer has already changed his perspective and outlook on life and priorities. He said the past few years that his business had boomed, mainly due to one large account, and he and his wife bought some land and began to fill the American Dream Toy Box. You know, the stuff everyone says, “If we ever have money, I want one of those.” Funny how “those” always multiplies once we start the buying.

He said the problem was they got caught in a vicious cycle of acquiring stuff, the stuff needed maintenance, and cost more money, so they worked harder and then they had no time to enjoy any of it. We talked about how so many of us as Americans really want to “own,” but not necessarily “use,“ because the owning eats up all the time, and oddly, seems to satisfy us. The stuff becomes like trophies displayed—impressive, but useless.

My friend said that after the diagnosis, he and his wife talked over priorities, and started selling the stuff. Oh, and somewhere in all that, the big account got pulled too. 95% of his business—gone with a single phone call. He said now, he and his wife want to downsize, simplify, enjoy life, and experience things together—like weekend road trips and time with good friends.

He said he gets up every morning and prays, “Lord, thanks for another day I had and this one to come. Help me to do what You want me to today.” He said he won’t miss his stuff, he’s realized money isn’t that important, and just wants to slow down and enjoy the days God gives him. He no longer wants to miss life, just because it’s flying by him too fast.

Here’s what I took away from my time with him and some questions I know he would want you to think on too:

• If you were diagnosed with cancer today, what would be on your list of things to go?
• What stuff wouldn’t matter anymore?
• What would need to be added to your life that isn’t there now?
• What would matter to you? And where would God be on your new priority list?

Why not answer those questions and start that journey before there’s a diagnosis?

We are such funny creatures that we will be busy about things that we know, deep in our hearts, really don’t matter, but somehow we might feel better about the insanity if we can do it just one more day.

Think about those questions.  And let me repeat: If you’re still breathing, you can change.

What I’m trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God’s giving. People who don’t know God and the way he works fuss over these things, but you know both God and how he works. Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don’t worry about missing out. You’ll find all your everyday human concerns will be met. Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don’t get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes. —Matthew 6:31-34 MSG

Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans. – Proverbs 16:3 (NIV)

In some circles, it’s referred to as the big “C”.  Often described and amplified with words like – afraid, selfish, or juvenile.  Numerous articles have been published with a tone of bitterness and curiosity as to the nature of this character trait in men, a failure to commit.

Television shows, movies, and pop culture have perpetuated and exaggerated the myth that men are fearful of Commitment.  It’s an easy topic with many targets, however the definition is often misapplied.

They are all dead wrong.  Men do commit to life.  We are engaged in things that match our wiring, we go “all-in” with dozens of pursuits in our life.  Commitment isn’t the issue – it’s what we choose to commit ourselves to that makes the difference.  Regardless of how we view commitment, there is a best practice we should follow.  Commit to God first.

Commit to your faith as enthusiastically as you commit to your sport, your hobby, your interest.  Don’t forfeit your life… better yet, allow God into every area and watch all aspects of your life explode with joy.  Commitment is a big “C”, but Christ is even bigger.  Let Him establish your life!

2 Minute Drill

List your favorite things that always get first attention in your life.

Where can God become first in each of your commitments?

PRAY:  God, I am willing to put you first, but a little hesitant that I’ll lose a part of who you made me to be.  Shut down that thought, remove the hesitation in my heart, and give me opportunities to place you first in all that I do. Amen.

Wealth and honor come from you; you are the ruler of all things. In your hands are strength and power to exalt and give strength to all. – 2 Chronicles 29:12 (NIV)

Too often we judge a man’s character based on his work ethic.  We celebrate his dedication to the job, his commitment to the work, and laud his never ending thirst to refine his craft while looking past character flaws, grey area decisions, and questionable ethical behavior.  We are blinded by his high production levels. We seek these men because they commit themselves to the pursuit.

On the other hand, we are less than thrilled to have to carry the weight of the man who doesn’t do his share of the work.  We complain to our peers of the inequality in the workplace.  The man who shows up, punches the clock, and must be constantly prodded and poked for him to barely do his part —  he is a burden and a disappointment.

Just like the job site, the boardroom, or the factory floor, Christians are called to commit every effort of excellence to almighty God and to obey the command…GO make disciples.  God provides strength to carry out this task to those who commit to His ways and submit to His kingship.

An excellent work ethic is admirable and honorable – even more so when it’s put into perspective.  Let’s apply that same tenacious dedication to the real assignment – making disciples for Jesus Christ.  Work as hard at serving God as you do at your job…and watch the blessings of wealth, honor, and strength consume you!  You can do this right in your workplace.

2 Minute Drill

What is your balance between work and family?

Do you pursue your faith as hard as you pursue your career?

PRAY:  God, I want to serve you wherever I go and honor your name with everyone I meet.  Teach me to place you first, so I can do the work you’ve given me – to build disciples for your namesake. Amen.

Try as you might, you just can’t bend gender.  Either you have the equipment or you don’t.  Physically – men are different than women.  As clearly defined that may seem to be, it bears repeating.  However, does equipment alone make a man?  Are there other characteristics that define men?

Be a man!  We’ve heard that phrase, right guys?  Obviously the taunting individual isn’t requesting that a women, suddenly change equipment. It’s not a demand to swap gender.  However, it’s usually thrown into the ring as an indictment of behavior.

So what is a man?  How do we define a man?

I have the privilege of working with countless different types of men from various backgrounds, economic ranges, and ages.  The definition of manhood is as wide and varied as the irregular walls of the Grand Canyon.  So what is the definition of a man?

I’ve asked that question in various settings, and within even the smallest gathering of guys – the responses are erratic and dissimilar.   Could there be a grounding definition?  A base from which we all start?  Surely there must be a cohesive structure from which we begin to define who we are.

When someone yells, “Be a man!”.  What they are really saying is – “meet my expectations of what a man looks like based on the definition I received as a child!”  But that’s entirely too much to say when trying to “one-up” a guy in a face-off.

How we perceive men is greatly dependent upon how we viewed our father as a child.  Think of your father for a moment.  Remember the good moments and bad moments.  What memory shapes you most?  Perhaps you had no presence of a father as a child.  Who filled that role?  How did that shape you?

Many of our entertainment vehicles define the idea of “men” for us.  Most television shows depict men as bumbling idiots, buffoons, or shady rule benders.   You really have to seek out programming that doesn’t glamorize a guy for being a clueless idiot.

If we look to the bible for the definition of a man, we struggle to take the people littered throughout scripture and post them high on a pedestal as the definition of a man.  Even doing so, you’ll fall short of what is necessary to fit the bill.  The bible is full of men who missed the mark, obeyed the cultural stereotypes of their day, and fumbled the ball from time to time.

So, where do we get the idea that a man must be defined?  Outside of the physical characteristics, the definition of a man really disappears doesn’t it?  It would be nice to say that a man is…. and you fill in the blank.  But to a guy who had no father as a child, what does that look like?  To a son who was beaten and abused, what does a man look like?  To a young boy who was molested, what does a man look like?  To a teen whose father loved him deeply, what does a man look like?  To the child of a war hero who died saving other people, what does a man look like?

The fallacy of this definition lies in the notion that we are using men… to define men.  And let’s face it guys, we’re all jacked up.  None of us are perfect – and never will be.  If we truly want to find the definition of a man, look at Christ.  Yes, it’s the easy answer.  It ‘s the golden solution for all church people.  But let’s seriously look at the traits he embodied.

Christ was a self-assured and confident.  He stood before the leaders at age 12 and wowed them with His presence.  He spoke the truth, rebuked people who lied, and stood up for injustices.  He was loving and tender, but also powerful, and tenacious.  He didn’t dodge a challenge and went toe-to-toe with people who opposed him.  His love for his Father caused him to ransack the temple and drive out the derelicts who didn’t honor God.

Christ was intelligent, spent hours studying, teaching, and passing His knowledge to people who were cast offs.  He stepped forward to take the beatings, humiliations, and suffering so no one else had to endure it.  He died a horrible death in order to save those he loved.  He never complained.  He was determined and didn’t let the scoffers and the public opinion sway his course.  Jesus Christ was tender, he was tough, he protected those who loved him and his Father to the last breath of life.

So are you man enough to walk like Jesus Christ?  Seems to me, a fitting definition of a man.

We are all called to walk in his shoes.  So, until we commit to His way of life, we’ll just call ourselves men because have the right equipment.  But the real definition is reserved for those who live like Jesus Christ.

God calls us to be followers of his son.  In doing so, we become sons of God.  The true father definition is God the Father.  Honor him the way Christ honored him.  You’ll find direction, definition, and and unwavering characteristics that set you apart from all else.

To love others more than we love ourselves.  To be willing to sacrifice our own desires for those that we love.  That’s the definition of a man.

It [Salvation] teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, – Titus 2:11 (NIV)

There is a deep, cleansing breath, a sigh of relief, and an overwhelming sense of peace and accomplishment when Jesus Christ becomes our pursuit.  The empty promises of success and the shallow focus on status fades into darkness under the all consuming light of Christ.

No one is exempt from deciding his fate.  Christ went to the cross so we could spend our days honoring His commands as our king.  Chasing the world, abandoning self-control, and scheming new ways to smear the boundaries of right and wrong – erasing God’s truth and re-writing our own rules…are all ungodly.

Deepwater faith is intricately tied to our ability to put down our worldly passion and learn to live a God focused life.  Salvation in Christ, is our bent knee to the king.  Salvation in Christ, is our contract to live under His rule and not our own. Salvation in Christ, is recognizing that life really begins when our hearts are given back to God – the rightful owner.

Today… choose Christ Jesus.  Say “no” to wickedness and live self-controlled through the power of the Holy Spirit.  God first, you second.

2 Minute Drill

Have you experienced the salvation of Christ Jesus?

Where do you find encouragement to continue a life “not of this world”?

PRAY:  God, I have received your gift and want to honor You in all that I do.  Place reminders in my path that keep me focused on you.  Give me a decisive spirit that craves your love more than the world. Amen.

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen. – Ephesians 3:20-21 (NIV)

With clinched fists, tight jaws, and locked knees – we hang on to life and work tirelessly to bend it and mold it into something we want.  Circumstances snap back against us like a recoiled rubber band, pain begins to take the place of determination, and our fists become weak from holding our grip entirely too long.

God calls us to a life that has a different posture.  We let go of the reigns, with our hands relaxed – open with palms up and our teeth unclinched.  Wearing a countenance of joy on our face.  We grow weary with our feeble attempts to manipulate life into something we choose – and it can cause us to grow bitter and distrustful.

Today, let’s wake up to realize that God is able to do immeasurably more than we can imagine.  In fact, He is working well ahead of you, making paths available for you to find and explore.  When we open our lives to the guidance of Almighty God, we find what we were seeking all along – joy.

Let go of the reigns – and let God drive.  Watch him unfold your life in ways you could have never expected.  Experience His Grace and Glory!

2 Minute Drill

What one thing are you attempting to do without a nod toward God?

How often do you pray for God’s will to be done?

PRAY:  God, I’m growing weary from trying to do your job.  Help me understand that I can’t… no matter how hard I try.  Reassure me today that you’ve got “this” and your plan is greater than I could have ever imagined! Amen.

As a young boy scout, I was in training to receive a merit badge ( a set of skills learned in order to be reasonably proficient at a certain task ) in lifesaving.  One of the primary lessons was how to save someone who is drowning.

The instructor emphatically stressed the importance of keeping our distance from the drowning victim until we could safely approach them.  We spent more than half of the class learning how to avoid the grasp of the drowning person in distress.  Needless to say, I recall becoming a little confused, concerned, and somewhat distrustful of the teaching until learning more about the frantic state of the drowning person.

A distressed, drowning person loses rational thought.  They thrash the water, looking for stability, something to grasp that will hold them afloat.  As a rescuer, the person drowning sees us as the stability.  Often, the victim will attempt to “climb” and “cling” to the rescuer – locking them down and restricting their ability to move.  The rescuer then becomes a distressed victim as well.  Now the problem is compounded.  The rescuer must gain the trust of the victim – offering them every device possible to pull them to safety… and when all else fails, approach them, calm them, grasp them, and swim them to safety.

On dry land, in a world of spiritual warfare… we encounter friends, co-workers, neighbors, and strangers who are drowning in their own sea of despair.  The wicked enemy lures so many into the depths, deceiving them, offering them false hope, and empty promises.  When temporary stability dissolves in the rising waters, swimming is the only option.

Feet dangling, searching for ground that can’t be found.
Arms weary from treading water.
Mental endurance evaporates.
The wicked chuckles at destroying another victim.
Thrashing begins, a cry for help is gasped.
Pleas to God are prayed.

If only you, God, would slay the wicked!  Away from me, you who are bloodthirsty! – Psalm 139:19 (NIV)

As men of God, we become rescuers.  We seek those who are drowning in despair, but we approach with caution.  Keeping an arms length, and offering Jesus Christ as the solid ground of salvation.  We can’t bring them to shore until they relax, focus, and trust. We go to them in their time of trouble… reach out with Christ’s strength and saving grace.  And return to solid ground when they stop fighting and start believing that hope is near.

The bloodthirsty will always prey upon the weaknesses of ego, pride, greed, lust, fear, and doubt.  God will always send a rescuer to those who cry out for him.  As men of God, we are called to listen to those cries.  To go into the face of danger, to bring saving knowledge of Christ to everyone who calls.

We should never forget that the wicked pursue the rescuers as well.  Luring us into situations that are over our heads.  Trying to convince us that we can save people on our own… but that is a lie.  But you see, evil is also drowning… defeated by the cross.  Thrashing and begging for us to come to its rescue – then wickedly pushing us under the waves and drowning us one by one.  Today, we choose to rescue those who call on the name of God.  As for the wicked… may you sink like a stone – your fate has already been determined on Calvary.

We stand ready on the shore to be the hands and feet of God.  Together, we rise and respond to assist all who call on the name of Christ for hope.  Our mission is before us.

As Christian men, our faith is supposed to impact all areas of life—including business, work, career. So who we deal with and how we deal with them is vitally important. It not only impacts you and others, but Christ and your witness for Him.

Let’s look at three distinct groups of Christian men in relation to work.

1—DON’T ASK, DON’T TELL CHRISTIAN

This man decides that, regardless of what he does for a living, his faith will have no impact on his job. Doesn’t talk about it, just ignores it, and makes it a private thing. It’s okay if co-workers find out he goes to church, because that’s socially acceptable.

The issue then becomes a violation of the very nature of being a Christian and also discounts literally hundreds of Scripture passages like being an ambassador of reconciliation, fisher of men, son and servant of Christ, a city set on a hill, on and on. But it doesn’t stop men from acting like they’re not a Christian for one-third of their weekdays. The bigger issue with this is does this guy really turn his faith on when he goes home? When he hangs out with his friends?

2—CONVENIENCE CHRISTIAN

This man sees faith and church as a ticket to situational morality and the faith community. He needs it, he flips the switch, talks the language, makes the sale. Faith goes back up the sleeve for the next game. When he doesn’t need it or it could get in the way? Switch is off. Like the “don’t ask, don’t tell” guy, church is socially acceptable, so that’s the only place where faith enters life anyway—Sunday for an hour or so.

3—AUTHENTIC CHRISTIAN

This man views faith as a 24/7 undeniable part of who he is. His faith forms his identity. It permeates and impacts all areas, including work. He desires to be an influence and a witness for Christ. He knows he’s not perfect, but even how he deals with his mistakes reflects God’s grace and humility. Work, family, friends, church—all the same man. All the same faith. All the same Lord.

Which man are you? If deep in your soul, you know you aren’t a 3, here’s the great news. Any 1 or 2 can become a 3. It’s a decision away.

Here’s the strange flip though . . . a 3 can become a 1 or a 2. It rarely happens overnight. It usually takes some time. If your 3 status is slipping, maybe you’re already a 2.5, heading toward 2 or 1, turn around and head back. Please. Why?

The world is changed by 3s. And we need more 3s. We need you.

“He who is not with me is against me, and he who does not gather with me, scatters.” —Luke 11:23 NIV

Go in through the narrow gate. The gate to destruction is wide, and the road that leads there is easy to follow. A lot of people go through that gate. But the gate to life is very narrow. —Matthew 7:13-14a CEV

The Sovereign LORD is my strength; he makes my feet like the feet of a deer, he enables me to tread on the heights. – Habakkuk 3:19 (NIV)

He jogged behind the small bicycle while firmly gripping the back of the tiny pink seat.  She was pedaling with determination as she concentrated on keeping her front tire pointed straight ahead.

With each trip down the little grassy knoll, they celebrated every additional inch of progress.  She was learning to ride her pink princess bike, and he was teaching her how to balance, trust, and proceed with confidence.  She was growing weary from failure but he continued to encourage her.

“One more ride,” he said, “you can do this!”  Weary from failing, she agreed to try one more time.  Down the grassy knoll she rolled, and into the park she continued!  Her face beamed with excitement as she turned to celebrate with her father.  Surely he was running in stride with his hand firmly on the seat, but he wasn’t there.  She lost confidence – fell – and crashed with fear.  Instantly, her father was by her side.

She looked up with weepy eyes and said, “where were you daddy? Why did you leave me alone?”  He smiled and said, “I never left sweetheart, I was running right behind you.”  She dried her eyes, they embraced, and she was ready to try again.

God is our strength.  He empowers us to tread across the heights of life.  He rescues us from mishaps, miscues, mistakes, and the depths of despair.  Faith grows when we are willing to ride, fully confident that God has given us instruction and constantly assured that He is always near, ready to help when we stumble.

2 Minute Drill

Do you remember learning how to ride a bicycle?

Have you ever taught someone how to ride?

PRAY:  God, you’re always there for me.  I soar with eagles and you are there.  I crash with fury and you are there.  Thank you, God for giving me the freedom to live this life.  I want to bless you with my trust. Amen.

Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth. – 2 Timothy 2:15 (NIV)

Jerry stood before a crowd of nearly 800 professionals to talk about his company’s position on global markets, emerging technology, and industrial efficiency.  Jerry was considered an industry leader among his peers.

Years of hands-on experience, intensive research, and educated opinions had led him to the front of his industry.  Without hesitation, Jerry began forecasting and offering deep convictions and warnings to his peer group – fearful that refusing to accept new technologies into their processes would surely weaken their industry as a whole.  The crowd roared with enthusiasm.

Only 4 days later, Jerry sat in the middle of his Sunday small group attempting to lead a handful of adults through a biblical study on salvation.  He stammered, seemed uncertain, and knew he was one questions away from being embarrassed…fearful of not being able to answer the questions correctly.  Jerry felt ashamed of his lack of knowledge.

Like the investment we make into our careers, we should become equally invested in the truth of Jesus Christ.  Seeking opportunities for hands-on experience, spending deep contemplation on how Christ’s truth shapes our life, and learning about God’s word so we can correctly handle truth.

We should seek boldness to stand before others, as leaders of faith – unashamed of our creator, our savior, our Father.  Pursue your career with passion, but balance your life with equal pursuit for the truth in Christ. In the end, it’s Jesus that holds the key.

2 Minute Drill

Think about the skills required for your profession and the time you spend developing those skills.

How much time do you spend developing your understanding of God’s truth?

PRAY:  God, I want to be balanced.  Place reminders in my spirit to always seek you first and never find shame in proclaiming your truth.  You hold the key to life! Amen.